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Monday, June 30, 2003

special, unique, undefinable, extraordinary

at one point in our lives, we'll meet someone special to us. not a boyfriend/girlfriend special person kind...but just someone special to you. someone you're transparent with, someone just a phone call(or in this time, a text)away. someone who serves to be more than a friend, but not romantically attached to. he/she is the most trusted person your parents can leave you with. you love him/her purely, you care for him/her. you trust him/her with all your thoughts, your whole life. you feel very secure with him/her, no pretentions. and most of all, he/she feels the same way about you.
he/she may be what you call a soulmate, your bestfriend...whichever. but one thing's for sure...you'll only find that person once in your life. once you do, don't ever lose him/her. take care of your relationship, pray that things will fall into place and be well for the both of you. never be selfish of him/her, let him/her grow in his/her way. he/she is the greatest blessing God can ever give you, though nothing in life lasts forever..always remember that having that special someone in your life is the most blissful feeling one can ever experience, may it have lasted for a day..for a month...for a year...or until whenever God allowed it to. what's important is, you found each other...

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Saturday, June 28, 2003

given a choice between sustaining and changing, i'd choose to sustain. unfortunately, that's not what's meant to be. i had to learn things the hard way. though i never wanted to do what i did, i really had to. the pain's too much, there was a mutual grudge that shouldn't have never been there in the first place. it was so unexpected, it was all new. neither knew it was possible, but i guess you'll never know until you get there.

it hurt us both but it had to happen.maybe, at the right time..things will fall into place.yes, im still hoping it will.

life must go on..thanx for reminding me.

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Friday, June 27, 2003

i lost my PG anklet in class yesterday!!! =( bad trip!

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Wednesday, June 25, 2003

thoughts of you suddenly lingered in my mind. are you just a past or a memory?

my heart cries whenever i remember all the things we used to do, all the carefree & happy times we used to share.. all those honest & sweet talks we had.

finally, i found a real thing with you but i don't frankly know if it all were true. doubt scratches my faith but faith is all that's left. the love, mere words can't explain, it hurts soo bad. it should make me stronger, i should adapt, and shouldn't lose hope.

i wish you well, your happiness. im still loving you, but i'm letting go.

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Tuesday, June 24, 2003

Somewhere in the world, a home awaited us. A place where we could care for daughters or sons who would come home from school, fill the house with joy, and never pick up after themselves.
We walked in silence through the rain until finally we reached the place where the visions of Mary had occured. It was exactly as i had imagined: the grotto, the statue of Our Lady, and the fountain--protected by glass--where the miracle of the water had taken place. Some pilgrims were praying; others were seated silently inside the grotto, their eyes closed. A river ran past the soon as i saw the image, i said a quick prayer, asking the Virgin to help me--my heart needed no more suffering.
If pain must come, may it come quickly. Because i have a life to live, and i need to live it in the best way possible. If he has to make a choice, may he make it now. Then i will either wait for him or forget him.
Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worst kind of suffering.

In some corner of my heart, I felt that she had heard my plea.

-By The River Piedra, I Sat Down & Wept
Paulo Coelho


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Friday, June 20, 2003

my two friends who have never cut in their entire college lives had their first taste of absence today..oh,yes!there's always a first time for everything!! =) they were all smiles announcing that they decided to be absent for that particular subject.i was surprised upon hearing it, maybe to all those who would read this too would be. they even served to be inspirations to some of our friends to not miss a class...but then, sometimes things do change =p to aix and zee...congratz!! heheheheh!!mwah!mwah!

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Wednesday, June 18, 2003

i can relate.....

When boys become a girl's best friend
By Pamela Angela Salomon Pastor

Inquirer News Service
CONTRARY to the popular belief that men cannot have purely platonic
relationships with women,
today more and more females have found best friends in their male counterparts. Of course, even more women have gay best friends, but hey, that's a different ball game.

We all know that women outnumber men. So why can't women stick to tradition and just giggle with their girlfriends? Let me tell you why:

·While most guys are terrible at being good boyfriends, they can actually be great friends. Without the stress of jealousy, commitment, looming anniversaries and other dates thatshould-never-be-not-even-once forgotten, women and men can have pretty good relationships.

·They're not afraid to get their hands dirty. While most women squeal when being splattered with mud, men like rolling in it. They don't worry about ruining their manicure or getting dabbed with
spaghetti sauce on their shirt. They're more relaxed, less conscious. That makes them more fun.

· They don't spend too much time going on bathroom breaks.

· They don't constantly complain that they're getting fat.

· They think like guys. How else will you be able to dissect the head of that guy you've been drooling for without your male best friend's analysis of the situation? How will you snag Mr. Perfect without his guidance? Your male best friend knows what and how guys think-he is one.

· They give great advice. While women tend to be more flowery with words, men tell it as it is (unless of course, they are in the middle of courtship or are trying to sweet talk girls into
something). They jolt you back to reality.

· You feel protected. Now I do not mean that women are weak, weak creatures. I am a feminist myself. But it's nice to know that if someone starts beating you up, your male best friend will be
there to help you cream them.

· They act like big brothers. They warn you about no-good idiots who are after you. But of course, they're actually all big babies, which brings us to the next reason:

· You can mother them. Let's face it. Men - whether they're 16 or 60 - are kids.It's a given fact.

· They don't fall in love with guys. How many friendships have been ruined because of pals going after the same guy? Countless. This will never happen between you and your male best friend-to each his own.

· They're not afraid of calories. For most girls, pigging out is unheard of. Guys live for buffets and enjoy food more. That makes them great companions for eating out.

· They don't like boybands. (Most of them, anyway.)

· They're sweet.

· They don't shriek or scream.

· You can be yourself. Forget about crossing your legs and dabbing at your little mouth with a napkin. You can relax and chill and do whatever you want. You can be a guy with them.

· They don't get PMS (pre-menstrual syndrome)-ever.

· They don't talk about getting married-at least, not to you.

· They're not too clingy.

· They won't get mad when your phone is busy. Then again, in this day and age when almost everyone has call-waiting, who does?

· They share your love for computers and passion for the Internet.

· You can talk about the NBA-and not just about how cute the players are.

· They don't easily freak out. They can handle gory and morbid stuff. They don't get terrified.

· Their parents are not strict with them. Unlike most girls, they don't have curfews and can do what they want when they want to. That means more time for you to hang out.

But, of course, like everything else in this world, having boy buds also has its downside. Here are a few:

· Their girlfriends get jealous of you. Admit it, sometimes, us girls can be pretty unreasonable. Some females would not be 100% comfortable with the idea that you're hanging out with her guy a lot.

· They forget you're a girl. They've been calling you "dude" for such a long time that they've forgotten your gender. This is why you'd hear your guy friend say, "Whoa!" when he sees you all dressed and made up. This is why they think it's okay to salivate over other girls and comment on their bodies when you're around.

This is the reason they tell disgusting jokes and expect you to laugh with them. Don't expect them to open doors for you and yes, don't expect them to carry your things. And unless you start wearing skirts to show off your legs, it will probably take a bump on their heads to remember you're a girl.

· They can be pretty obnoxious. They can rattle off endless curse words for minutes. They can tell sexist jokes and can be pretty sarcastic at times. But once you sharpen your tongue and prepare your own vocabulary of insults, you may just beat them at their own game.

· Sometimes, they can take you for granted. You've been with them so long that they expect you to hang around forever. If they blow off your plans because they suddenly got a date with some hot chick, they expect you to grin and bear it. If they ask you to befriend this girl they've got the hots for so they can get on her good side, they expect you to do it for them ­ even if you hate her guts. Let's face it. Most men really need a dose of sensitivity.

· You may end up as a girlfriend substitute. This happens a lot ­ especially with males who are afraid of commitment. You end up going to his prom or to his all-important office function as his date. He introduces you to his parents just to stop them from asking about his
almost non-existent dating status. He finds security in your friendship and seeks comfort in your companionship. You become his ultimate excuse for not going out with other women.

· You have to endure their burping contests. And when you tell them to say, "Excuse me," you get chided for being too prude.

· They may scare away boys that you like. Having other boys around you all the time may cause a hottie to think twice about asking you out especially if he's the type that scares easily. One, he may think that any of the guys are more than just a friend. Two,even if they are just your friends, he probably knows that if he screws up and hurts you, he's going to be in trouble. Then again, why should this bother you? If the potential boyfriend cannot even stand up and face your friends, how can you expect him to be strong when it is needed?

· Your boyfriend can get jealous of them. In the same way that their girls do not appreciate your presence, your guy might not like the idea of you hanging out with your close male buds. The male ego is a very, very sensitive thing. More so if the owner dotes on it. As bad as
this sounds, sometimes, it boils down to a difficult choice-your boyfriend or your boy-friends?

· They can dump you when their girlfriends get too jealous. Since you are expected to always be the perfect and understanding friend, they don't think you're going to mind if they stop hanging out with you. "She doesn't understand why we have to go out and watch movies
when I can do it with her." But you've got to understand the guy. He's probably pretty sick of hearing her whine, "Why is she texting you again?

Doesn't she have any other friends?" and "What! You're going out again? But you just went out with her last week!" And just in case that particular relationships ends, they expect to be able to
pick up from where they left and resume the friendship like nothing happened. Yes, friends make sacrifices. Even hard ones.

· They can fall in love with you. If I'd get a peso for every single time this has happened in history, I can probably buy that Ford 150 now. Unless you feel the same way about your guy friend and you want the friendship to become more than just that, the situation may not be pretty. Either you forget about it and laugh about it when you get older or your friendship goes ka-put. Definitely not a good way to end things.

·Or worst yet if you find yourself up falling in love with them
Guess that's why for security sake, always keep a handful of girlfriends That way you have people to run to in case you lose your guy best friend


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Tuesday, June 17, 2003

everytime a door closes, a window opens.

i've never expected anything in return whenever i love.i give my trust, my patience, my understanding and acceptance to the other wholeheartedly.trust in all aspects, where i believe leads to my patience, understanding and acceptance.twice have i done this, but both times didn't turned out so good.both times i cried in the end and loved them more than i could imagine.no regrets, though. no regrets at all for i agreed and let myself be caught in the situation. i've always believed that we must live up to all that we decide to do, good or bad, there's noone else to blame but us. emotions may take over, but the heart speaks of the truth. pain and sacrifice will surface, but because of the love you've given and gained, it will be worth all the hurt.
love is when you believe that everytime a door closes, a window opens.life won't end when relationships fail, life must go on.i never realized this until someone close to me said it with utmost sincerity.he led me to believe that sometimes, life must be a trash so you'll be able to clean up and make things better.he made me realize that the most important things in your life must be sacrificed in order to be at peace and express more love to another and that someday..the door will be opened again after you've peeped through the window and appreciate the most beautiful things life can provide.

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Monday, June 16, 2003

for the gurlz...

"When I stand up for myself and my beliefs, they call me a bitch. When I stand up for those I love, they call me a bitch. When I speak my mind,think my own thoughts or do things my own way, they call me a bitch. Being a bitch means I won't compromise what's in my heart. It means I live my life MY way. It means I won't allow anyone to step on me. When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak up against it, I am defined as a bitch. The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish. It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be. I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. By God, I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that! So try to stomp on me, try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold
within me. You won't succeed. And if that makes me a bitch, so be it. I embrace the title and I am proud to bear it.

B - Babe
I - In
T - Total
C - Control of
H - Herself


B = Beautiful
I = Intelligent
T = Talented
C =Charming
H =Hell of a Woman

From the Sisterhood of Bitchdom!!!

May we all get what we want, when we want it, and how we want it,
because we sure as hell deserve it. I live in my own little world, but it's OK, they know me here..... ;) "

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Sunday, June 15, 2003

Be the miracle

"Bruce Almighty" is a heartfelt movie. Comedy as it is, but also an inspiration for me to love and care and respect others through God's eyes. i have always depended on God for my strength and guidance. He's always been the One to have helped us all to rise everytime we fall, the One who gives us reasons to live each day and the One who knows & owns the right time in all things. The movie showed all these realities in its own special way. it made me laugh and cry..and most of all, it hit at the right places. it hit me emotionally when Grace (played by Jennifer Aniston) was praying in her bedroom at her sister's house for its exactly how i'm feeling now. it hit me morally when Bruce (played by Jim Carrey) helped a guy in the street for its not an everyday thing. And most of all, it hit me spiritually for faith is only thing that keeps us alive.
nomatter where life may take us...God will always provide what we need most...at the right time, at the right place.

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Monday, June 09, 2003

just want to say thank u to bianca for all the help!!iloveyu,dear!!!mwah!!!

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Sunday, June 01, 2003

ANG ALAMAT NI GRIMACE

Hindi ka ba naku-curious kung ano o sino si Grimace??? Sa mga hindi
pa nakakaalam... si Grimace ay yung batchoy na kulay ube na mascot ng
McDo. Ano ba siya? At ano ba ang papel nya sa buhay ni Ronald? Sabi
sa website ng McDo, eto daw si Grimace:

"Grimace is a big, loving, fuzzy purple fellow who is Ronald
McDonald's best friend. He's sure Ronald is the world's ultimate
authority on everything. While Grimace loves all McDonald's foods,
he's absolutely crazy about milkshakes. Grimace is very enthusiastic
and eager to try new things. His joyous spirit helps everyone
overlook the fact he's a little slow and clumsy sometimes."
O e ano naman ngayon?!?

Actually, si Grimace ay kontrabida na may anim na kamay na nagnenenok
ng milkshakes. Ika nga sa isang website:
"Between Hamburglar (who stole burgers), the Fry kids (who stole
fries), and Grimace, crime was running rampant in the 'McHood."
O di ba... napakagandang ehemplo sa mga kabataan?? Pero ang
pinakamagandang mga teorya ay galing sa mga Pilipino:

unang teorya: Si Grimace ay isang ube mascot. Ung McDo marahil ay may
ice cream o shakes na ube ang flavor.

pangalawa: Si Grimace ay bastardong anak ni Tinky Winky ng
Teletubbies (na natsitsismis na bakla) at isang eggplant.

pangatlo: Siya ay violet na krayola na iniwan ng mga bata (sa
playground ng McDo) sa araw para matunaw.

pang-apat: Grape-flavored drink daw si Grimace... kaya lang maasim un
drink kaya nagmukhang grimace sila... kaya siya tinawag na Grimace!

panlima: Siya daw ang pinaka-swanget na mascot ng McDo, kaya siya
pinasuot ng costume - purple na costume daw ito na napaka-bigat na
hindi na matanggal! Hehe!

pang-anim: Si Grimace ay lahat ng pagkain sa McDo na hinalo sa
blender....

pampito: Siya ay isang milkshake. Period.

pangwalo: In-introduce da w ng McDo ang kamote french fries sa Pinas
ng pumunta daw sila dito. Kaya daw may mascot na Grimace. Isa siyang
kamote.

pangsiyam: Kakambal pala siya ni Ronald McDonald, kaya lang, retarded
daw si Grimace kaya siya pinasusuot ng purple costume.
pero ito ang pinakamatinong teorya so far...

pang-sampu: Si Grimace, kasama ng iba pang mascots ng McDo, ay
pinakilala noong 70's. Siya ang nagrepresent ng Blueberry milkshakes
na ni-launch sa US. Ang tawag talaga sa kanya ay Evil Grimace, kasi
nga nagnenenok siya ng milkshakes. Galing siya sa isla na puno ng
sigla at puro milkshakes. (Ok, whatever...)

E ano ba ang official word ng McDo???

Well, may tumawag sa McDo to ask nga kung sino ba talaga si
Grimace... Alam mo kung ano ang sinabi ng babaeng sumagot ng
phone.....???

"He's a potato."

Uh... okay! Whatever.... =)

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